Michelle DOB: March 9, 1976
Husband: Billy DOB: August 13, 1973Questions for Reading:
Sometimes I feel a disconnection between my husband and I. Will we be married always or not? He is deploying to Afghanistan soon, will he be safe? I was once told by a psychic that I will be a widow, do you see this? My daughter is in kindergarten is struggling with anxiety issues, will she ever overcome these? Or could it be something else? Do you see me staying in California? I feel lonely sometimes with a lack of friends.
Hello, Michelle. This is Lisa writing you. It is such a great pleasure and joy to connect with you and your energy! I must also thank you for allowing me this wonderful opportunity to complete this reading for you today.
In completing your reading for you Michelle, besides tuning into your own divine energy I shall be consulting with my spirit guides as well as your own and Billy’s, and I will also use the Golden Tarot (intuitively) in order to answer your questions with the most clarity and accuracy as possible. But what I will do here, seeing as you’ve actually asked a few different questions that concern rather different areas in a person’s life, I will address each of those concerns as you yourself posed them within your reading request. Doing it this way, it will hopefully avoid any potential confusion not only on my part but yours as well, and actually it will prove to be a much easier read and reference once it’s fully completed. So with that being said, please look for the *** for my responses.
“Sometimes I feel a disconnection between my husband and I. Will we be married always or not? He is deploying to Afghanistan soon, will he be safe? I was once told by a psychic that I will be a widow, do you see this?”
*** Michelle, the main message I am getting here – and it’s a very strong one hon – that apparently neither you or Billy seem to spend too much time together. Now, indeed I see that the two of you are always “together” one way or another. However, what about some ALONE time? I am talking about spending some time for JUST you and Billy? It just seems Michelle that unfortunately for the last little while the two of you have become so involved in everything else – all the usual daily hustle and bustle and goings on. A married couple, no matter how busy or tired they do become, they need that peace, serenity and togetherness that is experienced when they take a time out – take some time to spend with one another … to be alone and just enjoy each other’s company without having to “deal” with the usual everyday issues and responsibilities. You’ve allowed your daily responsibilities and duties to get in between you and your husband, Michelle. The marriage, the relationship that the two of you share; it has been neglected as a result. This here is the MAIN reason for your sense of feeling somewhat disconnected from your husband once in a while.
Realize that when a married couple allows this particular concept to happen, they DO in fact somewhat “forget” about each other, and they feel that disconnection because unfortunately they likewise start to “forget” who each person is, “forget” the true reasons why they love one another and got married to begin with, “forget” what it’s like to be alone together, “forget” the romance that is always required in ANY marriage, and so forth. They essentially do become disconnected – and what tends to happen sometimes too is that as a result of this disconnection and not spending time together, the couple will eventually begin to fight amongst themselves – and usually about the silliest of things – the stresses of not only the every day responsibilities but also the stresses of the sense of disconnection between the two of them build and build to a point where ultimately one or both partners will literally blow/explode. And admittedly this is extremely easy to get caught up in, Michelle. COUNTLESS couples experience the exact same thing as yourselves. It’s very easy to allow our every day responsibilities and stresses to overtake our lives. But sweetheart, this type of a situation is also VERY easily fixed! All that is needed – truly – is for you and Billy to literally take a time out with each other – I usually recommend twice a month for the busier couples like yourselves. Michelle, once you start faithfully practicing this, setting aside some time for just you and your husband to be alone (rent a hotel room for a night, go see a movie, have a night of dancing, etc), you will quickly see some definitive positive results. Results can be seen as early as the very first “date” or “time out”! BUT – you have to be faithful to this ritual Michelle; otherwise unfortunately the two of you will continue to feel this uncomfortable disconnection from one another and things will eventually build and build to a point where something will give way or blow.
Now I have to really stress here for you as well of just how important this concept is especially in knowing that Billy will be leaving for Afghanistan soon. Get as much time in together as possible sweetheart! While Billy will most certainly be in danger sometimes, I do not see him as suffering any injuries and I DEFINITELY DO NOT see him as dying Michelle. But my point Michelle is that he will be gone for a while – not just a week or two – not even just one month. You DESPERATELY need this time alone together Michelle I just cannot stress this enough. It will give BOTH of you something to hold on to for the time that Billy is in fact away. Create some loving memories together – for the two of you will hold the experiences close to your hearts.
As a closing note to this particular topic Michelle, I have to say here that should you and Billy faithfully allot some alone time together every so often – honey I see you as having a very successful, life-long marriage. I do not see any reasons for the two of you to separate – just so long as you both spend time together!!! That is the MAIN KEY for success with a lot in this reading here today my dear; the concept of needing to spend much more time together – as a couple in love with each other. And as far as you becoming a widow Michelle … I will be completely honest with you and say this very bluntly: YOU need to stop putting such energy into such negative and untrue thoughts – beware of the law of attraction! Michelle, I do NOT see you as becoming a widow any time soon no. However, logically-speaking we all know that women often live much longer than men – we have longer life spans. So, there is a possibility that you may become a widow in much later years (say at the age of 70 or so), but that is all. And this is just biologically-speaking Michelle – this is just in using common knowledge that this could be a possibility … not just for you but for COUNTLESS other women out there. I truly do not feel that you have anything to worry about – and honestly I wish for you to not pay attention to that particular message this “psychic” said to you. I do not feel it to be warranted at all – and seems to be simply based on the fact that Billy is enlisted in the army/navy. Once again, do not allow that unfounded fear to overcome you Michelle. You have so much more to live for and to look forward to in the years ahead – you don’t deserve to have such a worry or stress on your shoulders. Please, I do beg of you, please let that thought and fear go. You don’t need to worry about this for many, many years.
“My daughter who is in kindergarten is struggling with anxiety issues, will she ever overcome these? Or could it be something else?”
*** Michelle, I am being told very strongly here that it is purely nothing more than separation anxiety sweetheart. Realize that it is always a huge step when a child first begins kindergarten. You know, I am actually being reminded of my twin girls and when they first started going to kindergarten. You want to talk about anxiety – well these girls were to an extreme I kid you not. My one girl would literally curl up into a little ball on the floor whenever her name was called out during the morning roll calls, and my other girl always felt the desire to get up and hide underneath the teacher’s desk. My girls were extremely shy and full of anxiety … this is what I am seeing here with your Chloe. It’s as if I am looking at a true mirror image here.
Give her some time Michelle – the first year is always a bit rough – but admittedly it’s rougher when we’re dealing with such shy children like mine and yours. I see Chloe as literally blossoming when she returns to a new school year, Michelle. It won’t be so hard on her. The teacher may get a few weeks of initial anxiety at the beginning of the year, but after that Chloe really starts to come around. Realize that the school setting won’t be so alien to her then – and she will be surrounded by friends that she met this year. The sense of familiarity will overtake this anxiety and will literally kick it to the curb.
But to get through the remaining few months in this school year, that kindergarten teacher must stop zeroing in on Chloe (it’s like Chloe is somewhat set out from the rest of the class rather than having her get more involved) all the time and actually sit with her one on one more often. Chloe doesn’t completely trust that teacher of course – but if the teacher takes the time – she could experience a much better year end come June. The teacher must also, like I mentioned a few moments ago, get Chloe involved with the group more instead of allowing her to pull back inside her protective bubble that she has created for herself when her anxiety really kicks in. It’s okay to allow Chloe her space once in a while – but not all the time. So please, make sure that the teacher does in fact MAKE Chloe get involved with the class more and into more activities that require more group interaction.
I truly do not believe that there is nothing more wrong with Chloe other than like I say simple separation anxiety and shyness (which of course exacerbates each problem lol). Chloe will have a much better year next time around. Remember – this is a huge step for such a little girl. It will take her time to get used to all this newness.
But as I say, in order to help Chloe overcome her shyness and anxiety a bit faster, I strongly recommend that she get more involved in classroom activities that require group interaction. I would also recommend perhaps getting Chloe more involved in activities OUTSIDE of school that would place her in a group setting – for example dance lessons, figure skating, swimming, and so forth. This will really help her achieve progress at a much faster pace.
In closing Michelle, I must address your feeling of loneliness due to a lack of friends. Once again sweetheart the concept of taking time out is coming into play here. Recall me mentioning earlier in the reading about how the everyday responsibilities, etc have overtaken both your lives – essentially keeping the two of you apart and not allowing some alone time together. Well, the exact same concept is applying here to YOURSELF, Michelle. YOU need to take some time for YOURSELF too my dear. Instead of staying in the house and keeping to yourself, get out there and find more to do honey. Join some special interest or mutual interest groups. Perhaps even consider taking up a course or two to exercise your mind. You need to take action for yourself Michelle. If you’re feeling lonely and you wish to have more friends, then you have to get out there and find them. Honey you can make so many wonderful friends – you are such a loving, warm and caring spirit not too many people could ignore that in you. People would be naturally drawn to you, Michelle. BUT – you have to make yourself available! I do realize that in that past you’ve trusted people … perhaps a little too much sometimes … and as a result you’ve been hurt or burned by people that you considered as your friends. This is another reason why you’ve built that wall around yourself – protecting yourself from outsiders. But, if you start to surround yourself with like-minded people and just take a friendship one day at a time rather than take it on full tilt, you can most certainly avoid those disappointments and hurts, Michelle. Michelle, you will not find any loving friends at all if you don’t break down that wall a little bit … and as I say make yourself available once again (not just emotionally but physically as well). Take some initiative honey – get out there and start pursuing some of your goals that you’ve been putting off for the last few years now. Not only will you undoubtedly make many new friends, you will also fulfill some goals that you’ve had on your heart and mind for some time now.
As a quick note, in response to your question as to whether you will stay in California or not, right now Michelle I am not seeing any moves any time soon. However, I am seeing a potential for a move here close to Christmas – perhaps even in the new year of 2011 – but I do not see it as being a move out-of-state. I see this move as occurring in California . There is some slight potential to move out-of-state, as it may be required of Billy – but I do not see this potential for approximately a year to two years.
Once again Michelle I must truly thank you for allowing me this opportunity to read for you today. I do hope that this has helped to clarify some of your concerns. But should you have any further questions or concerns, please feel free to write back. I would love to hear from you and talk about any updates that you may have ... and I wish to help in any way that I can.
I will be holding you close to my heart and remembering you within all my thoughts and prayers, Michelle. I am with you in heart and mind, and you have my full support and love in all that you do.
With love and blessings to you always,
Lisa
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